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Tips & Tricks - Bringing the Party Home

Published in “Biggest, Baddest Birthday Spots in Dallas,” Dallas Child, September 2003

Kids love today’s “drop-off” parties where they go to the gym or skating rink, party-hardy for an hour or two, then return home. Parents like them too. Who wouldn’t when energetic staffs take care of most details?

What may be missing is socialization between parents – namely dads. To create an environment where the kids have fun and get to know their classmates – while you get acquainted with moms and dads – consider bringing the party home.

Rusty Rhone, party planner and owner of Bill Reed Decorations, offers nine tips for creating a warm and inviting family affair.
1 Tell guests “siblings are welcome.” Any parent with multiple kids will tell you how wonderful these words are.
2 Choose late afternoon when mom and dad duties are winding down and youngsters’ naps are over.
3 Serve a light dinner for everyone. The messier the food, the more relaxed parents become. Ribs and sausage on the grill make great antidotes for uptight adults.
4 Don’t buck the ball game. Dads with a sports habit are more likely to come if they don’t have to slink out to the car to catch a score.
5 Set the mood with a theme. Invitations make your first impression. Carry it out with everything from food and beverages to music and decorations. You can even go beyond the usual balloons and paper products and rent theme decorations, which can be surprisingly affordable
6 Deliver a fairytale. Kids theme sets range from Pirate Parties to Alice in Wonderland Tea Parties. Also, think Under the Sea. Native American Indian. Rock Star, All Star Sports, Under the Big Top, Cinderella, Safari, Wild West, 50’s Sock Hop, Tropical Jungle or Hawaiian Luau.
7 A grand entrance makes every kid a star. Roll out the red carpet under a lighted marquee for rock stars. Or a giant tepee for Indian princesses and guides. Or a pirate ship for little Captain Hooks and Tinkerbells.
8 Dress the set. Custom-draped tents make a great centerpiece in the yard for activities. Deep purple fabric and lights energize budding rock stars while red and white stripes complete the Big Top effect. Backdrops enhance the entertainment stage.
9 Plant the props. Child-size cutout characters, like a clown for circus parties or a mermaid for under the sea events, create photo opps. Accent props range from life-size elephants, tigers, bears and circus wagons, to whimsical fish, seahorses and seashells to giant lighted guitars, microphones and oversized glittered musical notes.

Rhone concluded, “Bring the party home and you’ll have a better chance of everyone in the family having fun. I grew up in a small Texas town, where parents and their kids got together all the time. Dallas is so big, I sometimes feel it’s hard for people to get to know each other.”

For more ideas, check out: www.billreed.com. Props start at $50. Bill Reed Decorations, 717 S. Good Latimer Expressway, Dallas, 214.823.3154 or 800.879.3891.